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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 26 yr old single mother. I left my daughter's father because he was abusive. We only knew each other for a couple months when I became pregnant, lived together for less than a yr and now separated (never married). Before him, I was in a long term relationship. Everyone thought we were the perfect couple. Now he was the love of my life but after promises of marriage and him going back to school to finish his degree, which he never did when we were together, I left him. I loved him but I knew he wasn't for me. I had left everything behind and moved to a different city to finish school. Well, after I left my daughter's father, he came looking for me. Seems he hadnt gotten over what we had and kept in contact with my family for the 2 1/2 years we were separated. At the beginning things seemed to be going great. He went back to school, he's great with my daughter. He treats her as his own. No complaints there, but with me he seems different. We've been together almost a year. Before he was affectionate, loving, caring, touchy and so romantic, and now he is not. Seems like I got him to go back to school but he lacks the other. I've even asked him to be more affectionate. I don't think its right to ASK someone to show you when it should be just done. He says everything is good and that he wouldn't be with me if he didn't want to but he says he does. My question is will he ever love me and make me feel loved or is he still hurt by me leaving him and will never love me the same? He says we are gonna get married and plans for the future but how can he say those things and not make me feel like he wants me. He hasn't even asked me to be his gf but introduces me as his gf. When I try to tell him how I feel he says I annoy him or that I'm nagging. Im confused as to what he really feels since I ask him but never get a clear answer.
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