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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello Aunts... And uncles ofcourse, please advise me... For 6 months I have been seeing a lovely man who I met through work, we began texting and it all went from there. We began meeting up outside of work every now and again - we don't see each other at work very often, maybe once or twice a month. As I say we started seeing each other and over time I've developed strong feelings for him, as he has me - telling me he can see himself settling down with me. But what's upsetting me is he never wants to spend any "real" time with me. It's really beginning to get me down :( I have alot of male friends on Facebook who are great friends and always saying let's go out on a date, let me take u out and he openly admits this makes him jelous so why when I ask him to meet me it's only for a short time and why do I always have to ask him? I've never spent anymore than 5 hours in his company apart from work. He'll say yea I'll come see u then doesn't. At first I thought maybe he was married or had someone but I am 110% sure he doesn't. Is he used to being on his own and set in his ways of doing what he wants to please himself? He's always on the phone to me yet can't be bothered to see me. What can I do about this? Tell him I deserve better and don't want to see him? Give him a fright and not respond to him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2011): To the first poster... He's 37
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 "Bob, I enjoy our phone conversations, but I am looking for a man to date, and that means actually spending time together in person, not just chatting on the phone. If this is all you are able to offer me, I will be moving on and dating other men. I think you're a great guy and I wish I didn't have to do this but I have to be realistic about my expectations and the reality of the situation. I hope we can stay friends."
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 November 2011):
 sounds to me like he's not really interested in a real relationship with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2011): Hi.Can i ask, how old is this man ?.And has he been single for a long time ?.If you tell me that it might help me to give you some advice.
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