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writes:After dating my ex for about a month, he decides to break up with me because he can't trust me and feels i am always lying to him. The first time we broke up was because i cheated. He wanted to give me another chance because he says he really loves me. After he found out i had fibbed on a few things he decided he could never be with me and he called me a whore amongst other things. He worries me because I also found out he has been doing very harsh drugs and I'm afraid he might do something drastic. I dont want to cling onto him but im afraid he might do something severe to harm himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didnt cheat on him during the 1 month weve been back. initially i had done that and hence broke up. and recently had got back together.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (20 March 2013):
 He's your ex, you need to let it go.
you weren't together very long and he's not your responsibility.
If you are concerned that he may harm himself you can report it to the authorities and let them deal with it.
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reader, llifton +, writes (20 March 2013):
 you two were together for only a month and already in that span of time you cheated once and lied a handful of times? i'd say leave him be. he wants to move on. and for the best because the trust has already been shattered so soon into the relationship.
also, since you found out he's on drugs, it's probably for the best you two aren't together anyway. that's a road you may not want to go down.
just let this go. i'm sure he'll be okay. it's not your job to look after him. i'm sure he has friends who will watch out for him.
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