A
male
age
30-35,
*mailzero
writes:hi all. im a 22 old boy going to medicine university who just broke up with my gf of 4 years because of continuous fights recently. recently i added a gilr on fb who is a medical student too (one year yonger). i had never seen her at school but i really liked her in photos. i have talked 4-5 times on chat and we had the common opinion that we are against knowing someone of facebook.she said i really had a very nice sense of humor and wanted to be friends and we will have the opportunity to meet in real life. she said to meet after an exam we both have at 10 september but after some days she said she will not go to the exam. she said she really needed time to pass with her friends and with the studying. ive not talked to her since coz i thought i was getting boring. now should i write her again on fb now or when the school starts and ask her to meet.(dont have any other contact) or is she acting to say leave me alone?
View related questions:
broke up, facebook, university Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, gmailzero +, writes (3 September 2013):
gmailzero is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your advice. its just im feeling i dont know anymore how to react with girls.i was 18 when i last was single and i have not had much contact with girls cause of jelous gf... i know its not the best thing to start a relationship right now but i like her and she will not be there forever. i think i am being ridiculous but i need advice on what to write to ask her to give me an opportunity to know her as a friend first and then see. i know it sound stupid but i think she had that look ive always wanted in a girl and for so little time ive benn talking to her it seems to me she has a calm and confident personality i adore in people. any idea?
A
female
reader, Aunty Babbit  +, writes (2 September 2013):
 I don't think she's not interested and why on earth should you suddenly think you're boring?You could send her a friendly message asking how she is and how things are going for her.Depending on the warmth of her reply you could maybe go on to ask if she'd like to grab a coffee with you.If she says no, then she's not interested, if she says yes but won't commit to when, then leave it in her court. If she says yes, then great!Please remember though that you've only recently come out of a long term relationship that ended acrimoniously.There's no rush to get back out on the dating scene, you may need a bit of time to readjust to being single also you're studying medicine and, trust me, it doesn't get easier and I imagine most of your time will be taken up with studying. Are you sure a relationship is what you need right now?All the best AB x
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2013): I've always found people just adding strangers because they think they're hot creepy, I always deny their friend requests.
But she added you, she talked to you and she was willing to meet up. So try again, just leave off any pressure to meet, keep it casual and it could turn out well. It's difficult going from the information given to see how she's feeling.
You could always send your number, say to feel free to call or text if studying get's too much maybe.
The ball's really in her court now.
...............................
|
