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writes: Anyone got any tips to be popular with guys? And to be their mates? Most of my friends are mainly girls, and i think that if I let guys get to know me a bit more, they might fancy me more. Anyone got anytips? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Wow, well Im a girl and all of my friends are guys.. which is unfotunate for me because they are all really immature- I've found, and are not very interesting. I think girls are way more interesting as human beings to be around, but girls bring more bullshit like gossip and drama.. But the reason my only friends are all guys is becasue I have been playing music longer that they have and I have have been skateboarding longer than they have, and Ive read more books, and traveled etc. So its a "fascination" thing I guess- although many of them aren't worthy for girls. I just reccomend sticking with your girls. If you are dying to get a guys attention- think twice. Its not worth it. Just be who you are, if theres a guy who thinks your cool or fun as a friend or a boyfriend- thats all good, but make sure to be happy how you are now. Beign happy withyourself is a very prosperous skill to learn, and sometimes the most rewarding. Enjoy your freedom!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (3 December 2006):
I dont agree with that. Just be yourself. Dont try to be something you are not. A guy will not fall for the real you if you dont let him see the real you.
Dont try too hard, dont put on an act. Let him see you are genuine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2006): Be beautiful, athletic, and intelligent, and interesting. If you can't be beautiful, then be the other three, and if also you can't be athletic, then be intelligent and interesting. If you aren't intelligent, then be interesting.
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