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writes:Hi, basically, I don't know what to do with myself, the past few years I've used MSN as a way to get to know girls, girls that I went to school with etc, but I always seemed to be the guy they loved to talk to, but would always go out and get with some total idiot at a party, I was just sort of there for them to talk to, and to help them with their problems, then the other side is when I go out, I always seem to get in some sort of trouble, normally a fight, which not only ruins the night, but brings me over as a total idiot no one wants to get to know. Also any girls that do come on to me are girls I'm not attracted to, both physicly and mentally, and it just gets me down even more because I seem to attract people not right for me. My last relationship was pretty much a year ago to the day, and since then I've not come close to another one, it gets me down so much and I don't know how to sort it, girls use me as somebody there who's willing to talk, help them with their problems, a case of nice guys finish last I guess. Anybody got any ideas on how I can improve myself so girls don't use me like this? Any sort of help will do. Thanks
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (22 August 2007):
 i think youre looking to hard possibly, youre doing right being a guy who listen, wish most ment ive dated would of lol..and the trouble part dont fight unless self defence, youre still young hey im 21 and not got a bf so dont worry just yet..try to understand youreself more be the person you want to be, try some hobbies to help you shape youreself. and if their are girls you like then talk to them if you get knocked down pick youreself up and shake it off as a not ment to be or a lesson learned..hope this helps A xx
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