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*sland Vibe
writes:hey,well theres this lad in my year at school and i really like him like have a massive crush on him. he's the same age as me, 16. He's in my music class i also see him around and about at lunch breaks, we talk sometimes mainly in music, but i was wondering how do i make him like me? lol. Cos i really wanna get seeing him so you got any ideas how i can get him 2 know i'm interested in him? like any flirting tips? haha I know it sounds stupid but i really like this guy lol.please leave replysthanks =]x
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reader, lexilou +, writes (7 June 2008):
 You cant make anyone like you, you can just be yourelf and show him the real you and let him know you are interested, that way if he is interested back he can act on it x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): I totally agree with "sugarcookie" encourage a friendship, then you will get to know him better and can also finally make up your mind if you really want to have anything more with him. Invite him into your circle of friends include him in your activities, get to know him better, before you make any other "moves".
It is 'safer' in more then one way!
Good luck!
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reader, Island Vibe +, writes (7 June 2008):
Island Vibe is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for the advice i shall give it a go =]
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (7 June 2008):
What i would do is start things slow. Try saying hi out side of class! When you and your friends have plans for a movie ask him if he wants to go and start trying to be around him a little more. If he excepts your offers it will more than likely mean he is interested. After a little bit of talking so that you know you are very interested and you know that he doesn't have a girlfriend or another crush come out and say i think i like you would you like to go out with me we could go to a movie (or whatever you find out he is interested in) and risk the possibility of being turned down. Just let him know that either way if he isn't interested that you want to stay friends because he seems to be a nice friend. You shouldn't have to wear low cut shirts and "accidently" brush up against him because if that is what get his attention then hes only looking for a booty buddy. Friendship is the best way to start any relationship!
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