Any ideas for dates where he wont need I.D to get in? And how can I overcome my shyness around him?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello everyone.. and thanks in advance for taking the the time to read my question :) i havent gone out in a long time since my ex like 3 yrs ago.. after him i became very anti-social.. and this new guy i really like him but for some reason i get very shy and quiet around him why i have no idea why. i work around guys, i use to be a tomboyish growing up..i never have truoble talking to guys and with him im quiet its like he intimidates me..reason he intimidates me is because i feel like hes too hot to talk to a girl like me we're the total oppositte hes tall athletic and well i am on the heavy side and im not the type of girl most guys go out with.. and i just dont know how to break this shyness.. there are akward moments when were in the car theres this silent moment i just dont know what to tell him.. i feel like i bore him we have only been going for walks in the park and movies.. but im tired i want to go out have fun go for a couple of drinks or somerthing but the thing is he does not have an i.d.. where can we go to hang out and have fun i dont know where to go.. i usually go out with friends where we mostly need an i.d. to get in.. any ideas where no id is needed or why act the way i do around him?

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