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writes:We dated for 6 months and our releationship was very passionate.He broke up with me because of his depression as he later explained.Then after 5 months he texted me asking for a second chance promising he would not repeat the same mistakes and i accepted.The first few weeks were great and then he stopped talking to me as much.We would ignore esch other for a week then talk and that went for a month maybe.I brought up that we should break up 2-3 times but he would say that he doesnt want to and appologise.Ig to fed up and asked to go out to talk about these stuff.But at the last moment he canceled because he "found out" he had an exam the next day.I proposed changing the time of the date but he didnt answer so i broke up with him. he asked why and i said that its because he didnt treat me and our so called releationship right.My question is is there a chance he would come back and ask for a 3rd chance even though i broke up with him this time? I really deeply love him
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reader, N91  +, writes (7 January 2018):
 Why would you want to get back with someone you've broken up with twice? Surely you can see a pattern emerging.
It doesn't matter who initiated the breakup, the important thing is that YOU BROKE UP. That means leave the situation as it is. Stop wondering if you'll get back together because it is NOT WORTH IT.
Don't you think you'll get together with someone else that you will stay with and not have to worry about breaking up? Stop dwelling on the past and wasting your time with someone. It is not your job to fix him. If he needs help with his depression then he needs to seek it and work on himself.
In the meantime, block him, delete him and move on with your life. You're too young to be wasting your time on stuff like this.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 January 2018):
 I hope he doesn't try and date you again.
Not because there is anything wrong with you, you sound lovely. But... because HE isn't in a place (mentally) where dating is something he has energy for.
You are 16-17? So you will learn (over time) that when a relationship JUST doesn't work you can't MAKE it work. That is trying to put a square peg in a round hole - it just doesn't fit.
And yes, you can LOVE and care for someone and NOT be a good fit.
He didn't treat you right - that much is true. Even if he tries to date you again, THAT WILL NOT change. Because he isn't mature enough for a relationship or ready for one right now and like I said, mentally... he isn't capable.
Wish him well and MOVE on.
Date guys who TREAT you right. Not just SOME of the time but ALL the time.
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