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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have just joined a new group of friends which are boys and girls. I go to a girls school so this is pretty cool for me. unfortunately when i came into the group most of them were already coupled up but there was this one guy who wasn't. I had an instant attraction to him, not at his looks but we had the same sense of humour but due to an issue i told myself that i was not going to get involved with him. Then i decided that lifes too short and i was going to see what happened but i was too slow and he asked one of my friends out. i really like him and i am annoyed that i could have missed my chance with him because the girl he is with now doesn't appreciate him and has messed him about for months with other guys etc. To add to this it is only a few girls left who are not coupled up in the group and there are about 5 other real couples so they have started to do things together. They invite us along but we are just ignored because the guys only want to talk with their guy friends and their girlfriends. I really want to find a way to open the group up again so it is not just couples all the time and i want to be able to get to know that guy better because even if we cant date i still want to be friends. I am sure it sounds so confusing and there are about three separate problems in those paragraphs but any advice would be really appreciated!! xx Reply to this Question
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reader, summer coles +, writes (23 November 2008):
hiya. groups of friends can be hard and in life you will go through many different types of them. maybe this group your in is not a very good one. cos if the couples split up then there will be tension in the group and people will be made to leave it or fall out. just because everyone else had a boyfriend or girlfriend does not mean you have to have one too. if they were true friends then they wouldnt leave you out or judge you for not havin one. but they do invite you out to places so they must not forget yoou. try talkin to the boy you liked cos maybe him and the girl myt split up and you could have a chance or you could jus have a chance to make a rele good friend.
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