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*bdream3
writes:Last year a guy a new on and off for 25 years was able to contact me after a 15 year separation and we started dating. I guess you can say we are what you call long lost lovers. The problems I am having with him are the same ones I had for so many years, he's a Gemini and he's very spontaneous and does things at the spur of the moment. I'm a Taurus and I am very reserved and organize things by planning them, at least I try to be organized in that manner. Some of you may not go by horoscopes, the only thing I follow is who I am the most compatible with and the different personality traits. The two of us are not a good match up and I can see why. However, my grandmother was a Gemini and my grandfather was a Taurus and they remained married until death did them part. I guess opposites really do attract. I strongly believe that there was no accident by us running into each other again after several years of being a part because there's reason for everything that happens, it's just that I am a needy, clingy and sensitive woman and he is a free spirited, active and happy-go-lucky man, which is nothing wrong with that, but it seems as if he does things on his own terms, even with me. I need some advice from somebody who is a Gemini or who knows Geminis and how to repair a relationship with them or if you have any suggestions on how I could deal with my insecurities when it comes to matters of intimacies and the heart. I have a real weakness with neediness and clingyness when it comes to men and love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2013): Hi,
I know this reply is a couple of years late but who knows, maybe you still check your account every now and then. I am a gemini woman. I find myself drawn to taurus men all of the time! I have come to the conclusion that they are not my best match as far as soul mates and marriage go. Sure, it's possible for some to work it out and stay together for years like your grandparents. What I have a problem with taureans are the simple fact that they are sort of boring people. Some appear lazy to me and don't have that go getter attitude. I find a lot of them want others to do things for them. They are good at carrying on a conversation with and can be silly just like the gemini, and are amazing in bed but they seek stability structure and comfort whereas geminis are hard to settle down. We don't like that feeling of restriction. If you really want this to work with him, be more adventurous and don't be so clingy because he will feel smothered. And if you are too sensitive he's going to feel like he's walking on eggshells. Best of luck to you. I love taurus men but as a gemini woman I could not see myself marrying one. You need to be with another earth sign. Try virgo or capricorn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2011): I am a Gemini and although I dont realy believe in astrology, I probably fit pretty well with the description you give of your boyfriend.
What a lot of people in general and women in particular dont understand, is that you can not change people! If you want to be with him, you will have to accept him for what he is. If you cant do that then find somebody else.
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