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Am I supposed to assume that he's moved on??

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Question - (18 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 August 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I met a guy on holiday 3 months ago. It was very brief but there was an obvious attraction. He works out there and is not due to come home (to where I am) until October. He gave me his number and we have been texting ever since and have spoken about meeting up. It is fun and casual because obviously we can't take anything forward while we are apart. However, I texted him recently and got no response. I waited a week and sent another text - just a general, "hey hows it goin" and again have received no response. Am I just supposed to assume that he has moved on to someone/thing else? Also, will I have come over sad and deseparate for texting him twice without getting a response - not really any need to worry about it I know if I'm never gonna see him again but wouldn't like to think I've made a fool of myself!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010):

Thanks guys! Especially for the insight that I only feel like I fool 'cause of the way I had been feeling about things (to which he will have been oblivious!). I had already deleted all note of his number after the second text to prevent any further contact on my part - onwards and upwards!

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A female reader, halibutfishnchips United States +, writes (18 August 2010):

Hi dear, I think you should stop texting him. I think he's over you and it's time to move on. Don't seem desperate! Plenty of fish in the sea. Nice fish, too!

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