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writes:My ex and I have been broken up for about six months since april almost and now he has a new girlfriend after we broke up we were still dating on and off until the middle of july and we stopped because he found a new girl. now its september and she has been his girlfriend for about two months. we recently became friends again and we both understand that we're not over each other and still love each other very much. the reason why we ever broke up was because he cheated on me and that he felt that he wasn't happy with me anymore. throughout our relationship I was always loyal to him but I had a hard time trusting him so I was controlling and sometimes got mad at the stupid things. he got tired of it. I begged for him back but nothing worked and here we are now. he cheated on his girlfriend with me; we got intimate yesterday. we had a long talk and he told me that he doesn't think that him and his new girlfriend have a chance at lasting along time because it seems to be fading and he doesn't trust her because she had a bad reputation in her past about being a girl who gets around. he considers me his number one girl and tells me that "if were mean to be together we'll end up being together in the end" he encourages me to date other guys and have some fun and experience new things because that's what he wants to do as well. but I can't seem to do it or I just haven't met a guy that grabs my attention. I really do believe what he says even though I have done some research and read articles about guys "playing and using their ex for sex" I don't believe that's the situation because he talks about me with respect to his family and friends to this day and isn't ashamed to tell them that he still loves me and that he still cares for me very much and his new girlfriend knows that he isn't over me as well. she just doesn't know that he cheated on her with me.i could be blinded by love but I want to know what you guys think it would help me out a lot. thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthat's what i ask my self as well. i really want things to work out between me and him but i dont know if this is going anywhere good. i confronted him today and asked him if i can trust him and he told me no.. and he also changed a few of his answers that he had said just two days ago. so no i dont think he can ever be loyal to me. and i asked him why he doesnt just end it with his new girl and start things with me if he really loved me and he says "why should i end something good? she hasn't done anything wrong"
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): I'm not going to pretend I have all the answers but I have a couple questions. Do you really think that, given his behavior with his current girlfriend, he'd be faithful or loyal to you? Also, if you were his number one girl, wouldn't he break it off with her and get back together with you instead of keeping you waiting?
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