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writes:Hello guys its another love related issue, well hardly an issue but i'd appreciate some advice. Okay here goes, i think i'm falling in love with one of my friends, i've known him since i was born but we lost contact for a couple of years. we recently met up after talking every day for a couple of months. it was so natural and i really wanted to be close to him, we hugged a couple of times. since he went home we've been talking for hours each night, i think about him all the time. it may sound stupid but i can see us being together in the fuure (like our parents used to tease us about when we were little), i want him to be happy and sucessful more than anything and i really care for him and his family. we've promised to meet up again soon, and i cant wait. Should i mention this to him, or just go with the flow? perhaps i am 'obsessing' a little too much about it. Any advice x Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Next time you see him in person just say 'I don't want to mess up our friendship but I have to tell you that I think I like you as more than a friend. I just wanted to tell you to see how you feel about it, if you don't fee the same then forget I said anything, but if you do feel the same then maybe we could make something of it. I had to tell you because otherwise I would never know if you could ever feel the same!' X
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): There's nothing like a bit of honesty when it comes to relationships. tell him how you feel about him and see what his response is. If you don't lay your cards on the table he probably won't either. Don't let the opportunity pass you by thorugh being shy or whatever. Tell him you fancy the arse off him and see what happens.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit sounds stupid but what should i say to him, i dont want to jepordise the friendship we have at the moment... any ideas? x
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (26 March 2009):
He may feel the same so take the plunge and tell him!!!!! You are both older and if he hugs you and stuff it may be a sign so go for it!x
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