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writes: I was convinced that my ex still loved me (and so were people on this site) as there were so many signs that pointed that way, but I've found out he's broken up with his girlfriend now. Why has he not got in contact with me? I know he's been thinking about me throughout their relationship (which in the end only lasted a week). He cheated on her with me, and he keeps asking after me when he talks to my friends, and he told his mate that I had a new bf so that he wouldn't hit on me. I'm I totally misreading his singnals?
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 I agree with Stina... he may just be really confused. He also may have dumped her out of guilt for cheating on her...Contact him and see how he's doing if he hints at getting back together then so be it... if not he may really want to move on. Sometimes it takes awhile and a few mistakes to get over someone... this may be the case. I'm only saying this so you don't get false hope. Your best bet is to ask him straight out if he still wants you or not.
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reader, stina +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I'm wondering if maybe he was confused about his feelings. Maybe he's just taking a break and having some time to himself to figure out what exactly he wants. If he dated this other girl, then he clearly had feelings for her. But since he was thinking of you the whole time (apparently), it might have him all mixed up. He just has to figure out what he wants. Those kinds of things take different amounts of time for everyone. At least if he gets back together with you, you'll know it's because he really wanted to, not that he felt like he was talked into getting back in the relationship. You know?
Take care.
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