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*onydsd
writes:Hi there.Ive been with this amazing girl for just over 11 months, and ive been in another counry for about 2 weeks now, and get back the day before our 1 year anniversary.I have been missing her terribly and have been in contact with her every other day. Although its always me getting in contact with her and not the other way round.We love each other thats a fact.But recently i recieved some bad news about my aunt going into intensive care in a major hospital, i have run out of money so there are trips that have had to be cancelled (still staying out here for the time period).And i got off the phone before i got all this bad news within an hour with my girlfriend for a chat and she was not in a good mood and got quite snappy with me and that ended the conversation.I got a rare message from my girlfriend later saying that when i get back we were planning to see each other for our anniversary for about 2 weeks before i go to portugal, but said that her grandmother is coming over when i get back from here so im not allowed to see her for a few days which means i will have to wait to see her for longer.I chatted to her best friend and said that i was close to breaking up with my girlfriend. I then got to chattin again with my girlfriend who was in a better mood, then her best friend told her i was thinking of breaking up with her- but i had changed my mind and that would never happen now and she got a bit annoyed, so i grovelled like my life depended on it and it seemed she was ok about it.But she seems to be in a sense not loving me as much.About 2 months ago she had dumped me and asked me back within 5 days for a reason i ammended - it was about controllin but i have done everything i can to not be any more- but she asked me back saying she cudnt bear life without me.But it seems as if that might not be the case any more. I dont know i mean if that was the case then i wudnt be always getting in contact with her.I relli love this girl and i cant bear to lose her. Just chatting to her made me realise just how lucky i am to be with her. I am always there for her, i share my feelings and everything a gentleman should do, but she doesnt do any of those things.For example on Facebook im always the one tryin to chat to her and while im out abroad im the one tryin to skype her.Im really feeling so sad, and i needed her to be there for me. We dont chat unless i get in contact with her, and when i do get hold of her, i always catch her in a bad mood.And when i tell her that i need her, and that she hasnt been there for me much, she says i make her feel guilty and i end up appolagising to her!!What do i do? How do i act? im scared she got relli pissed off with me thinking about breaking up with her when i realise thats the last thing i want to do.I want to be with this girl for ever, i mean im going to a university thats 20 minutes away from her cos i live in london and she lives about 2 hours away. I pray to God that she stays with me and im always worried she doesnt love me any more, but i am a naturaly paranoid person cos of my history. Ive never dumped a girl in my life, and this girl im with now is my world. I will do anything to keep her. She says she loves me also, but i dont know. Shes not one to cheat or anything and ive been talking to her friends and they all say dont worry, but i think ive done something wrong, but i just wanted her to be there for me. Is that too much to ask?Its a long story, but thats the long and short of it. If you would like to relli get in detail with me send me a personal message and we can chat on a more instant level but thanks to all those who reply to this.Thank you and god bless you xx
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reader, tonydsd +, writes (26 July 2010):
tonydsd is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate: Our year anniversary....she dumps me...again...
it is a sad day for love, and im destroyed inside....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): well 1st no your not doing a mistake with loving her so much ;) just dont bother her,. my boyfriend sometimes comes and starts to ''hey babe, i love you, you are beautiful..etc.'' when we met 1st time they were really good cuz i didnt have a bf but now they are just so classic, he trying to dont bother me cuz in a week we will dating 3 years!!! and we dont want to lose each other so when you do something wrong or think that its wrong just go and say sorry! , and when she looks weird stop talking and do something she likes.
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