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writes: hello i am wondering if any one can see heads or tales of my story ok me and my parter have been together for three years we have a child of one year old , when we first got together my partner cheated on me with his ex girlfriend well he deniese it but there were txt messages on my pghone to her saying that he is not at my house no more and cant wait to see her any way all this time i have thought he had cheated on me and every time i thought of it i was sick to the stomach then about 7 month ago things started to get wierd he stoped having sex with me infact the only time we have sex at all is when he is drunk and sometimes he cant even remember it in the morning, this has been going on for a long long time so things between us are very intence i used his phone to txt my sister as she was babysitting for our son while we was away for the wk end and i notticed a txt to danielle the girl who he was texting before i didnt read it i didnt even click on that it could of been her then a few days later the penny dropped and i realised it was her so i checked his phone and they was gone all the others were ther just the one to dannielle had gone so i confronted his and asked if it was her n he sed yes i told him i felt uncomfy and would like him not to talk to her any more but he got very upset and angree shouting at me saying i am jelouse and i dont trust him so i sed well u cheated on me with her b4 and he went even mader saying he never cheated he has never even slept with her not even when the was together so i asked why he txt her sayin he couldnt wait to see her but he blanked me out and sed i am being stupid and he wants to stop talking bout it sooooo people wot du think is it me being a jelous cow or is it him please i dont know what to do i am lost i love him so much i dont want to loose him but i want to know if he doesnt want me please i would love to hear what the guys think of this mandy xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006):
heya, I'm going throught the other side of that coin, constantly jealous etc etc. Well you will literally go insane if you are always jealous and then paranoid and it is horrible because all you want is a simple answer yes/no and the truth. I suggest sitting down with him asking him to tell all and letting your feelings known. Maybe she is just a friend now and if they were going out at one point it's very likely. A number of tacts you could take: if your brave ask to meet her maybe bring her around for dinner, "if she's your friend i want her to be mine aswell" gauge the reaction. Or else just forget about it all and trust him. Tell him how much you love how honest he is with you and how much you feel those people who lie and lie in love just gain blacker and blacker souls. To be fair it is impossible to answer and you have to speak with him in a serious from your perspective calm conversation.
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