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writes:[OP's original title]My boyfriend of a month was attentive and great company in the first two weeks we met. We spent a lot of time together lately but I've noticed he has become a bit grumpy. I feel that he's lost in his little own world as sometimes he doesn't reply when I talk to him. In a few words, he's become less interactive than before. We went shopping a few days ago and he was fiddling with his phone (claiming that he was sending emails) while I was searching for clothes. This irritated me as I think it's rude to use your phone a lot while you're out with someone. To cut a long story short, I confronted him about this and he apologised. He said he's got a lot on his mind (work problems) and that he wants to make an effort because he likes me. I asked him if there's someone else in the picture (as he was sending lots of texts while out with me) but he denied. Just a day later, he phoned me to hang out at his place. We were watching a dvd and he ordered some food and I felt really bad. We were sitting on the couch like two friends watching a movie, no holding, no kissing, nothing. I asked him to kiss me (which I feel I shouldn't do, it should come naturally but anyway) and he said he's too tired to kiss. He tried to hold me but I could feel that he's forcing himself to do it. After dvd ended, he wanted to watch tv so I couldn't help it but asked him to call me a cab so that I could go back home. I got up and was trying to hold back my emotions but all he said was comment on a naked lady on tv! When I got back home, I texted him to wish him a good night and to tell him I got back safely but received no reply. Surely, he had ten seconds to reply to my msg (he wasn't busy at work but at home!) but he didn't. Now we're not going to see each other for almost 2 weeks (we're both going to be away due to work) so I expected him to be attentive last night, but I was disappointed.My friends think I'm making a big fuss out of this. I think that it's the first month and he should be more attentive to my needs.
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reader, Falling_Star  +, writes (11 July 2010):
 Nope, I don't want a bf like that. =/ No matter how tired my bf is, I know he would still give me a kiss or something to let me know that he loves me. No you're not creating drama. You just wanna feel love. (: But it's clear that the guy are too tired to make you feel special. .
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