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Am I being used ? is this all worth it ?

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Question - (28 June 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have been dating a guy now for two years, and things started getting serious. i love him and told him i want commitment and marriage. he said if that was what i want, he loves me too and want to make me happy. but his son is not happy about the idea and threatened his dad to go and live with his mother if he goes ahead with our plans. his son lives with us, and i have always been good to him. i have 3 kids living with their dad, and they are not getting along. i decided to leave him, but we still love each other. is he worth it, or am i just being used here? is there an easy way out here? now he told me he was wrong and that he has got a plan. i am not sure what to do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2006):

Comment on...'he said if that was what I want..' re marriage. Well girl what about what HE wants? Does he really want to marry you and settle down with you? I think the answer is NO. Otherwise why would he go along and say 'if thats what you want' ??? You got children here to consider so be careful you are not being selfish.

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