A
male
age
41-50,
*rgsultun
writes: Dear Cupid,I have recently started dating a new woman (roughly 1 1/2 months). I have very strong feelings for her already and want to be with her all the time. I haven't felt this way about a woman in about 3 years. I've dated several women since that last relationship and haven't had these feelings. We only see each other maybe one time during the week and spend all weekend together. The sex is amazing, and we get along great. My issue is that last week she told me "we've being seeing a lot of each other and think we need a break". My initial thought was great, another failed relationship. We ended hanging out over the weekend and I got her a dozen roses. I feel as though she really likes me, but she might think I'm being needy or getting to attached. What am I doing wrong? Any advice would be appreciated, I really like this one and want to see how far this can go.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2008): sorry mate, nothing to do but take it slowly. if she does not want you, you can't make her change her mind. so you'll just have to wait and see
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Possibly it's all happening a bit fast for her and getting too intense. If you care for her, give her a bit of space. Ask her how she'd like things to be.
It could be that the sex is so good it is blinding you to everything else. It happens sometimes.
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female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 November 2008):
Perhaps she just wants to go out with her friends this weekend. She can hardly have seen them if she is spending every second with you.
She'll want to update them on the new man in her life etc.
Why don't you go out for a guys night out this weekend?
Good Luck!! xx
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