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writes: Dear Cupid,I am a 25 year old female. I had a boyfriend two years back, and everything was so well until the question of marriage arose amongst us. He had some family issues and told me to get married to some nice guy, as he can't give commitment. Then he stopped talking to me; though I tried contacting him many times (i actually wanted to wait for him....)I felt very heartbroken but after six months, with my parents consent, I got engaged and in the next six months I found out my fiance was a really great person. I was and still am not in love with him, but I always wanted a guy like him.p />The real havoc started when after one year, my ex boyfriend contacted me......in all this time I have never hated him, but have thought him as a heartless human being who left me in the middle of nowhere. He tried to prove himself that he was always so in love with me and it was just his problems that stopped him....and now he has realised that i'm the best person he has ever seen and met. Now i am so unsure about the whole thing. I don't want to break my fiance's heart and on the other hand, at the same time I get a feeling that I might regret it later in life if I do not go back to my ex-boyfriend ....please help me figure out what to do!!!!
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reader, sibaan +, writes (16 June 2006):
 follow your heart, you cant marry someone that you dont have that strong of feelings for. regret is one of the worst things to live with so decide carefully...
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