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After two years, would you be ashamed to introduce your significant other to your family?

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Question - (20 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am an American woman, dating an Italian man for the past two years. We've had our share of tough times but have conquered them.

There are still triggers that, if said or done, my heart stops and I start to feel needlessly anxious (yes, the tough times were very ***tough***)...we're both trying to pull through it.

After two years, would you be ashamed to introduce your significant other to your family? I am yet to meet his parents in Italy in person... his sister-in-law added me as a friend on facebook and after I added her, his immediate (within 1 second) response was "do not add her" when I said that I already had, he said "okay then I will tell her to delete you".

Am I being too sensitive?

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A female reader, Daisy Doo  United Kingdom +, writes (20 March 2010):

Daisy Doo  agony auntPoor poor you.

Tell him this.

Abd see what happends. (:

Good luck! x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010):

hmmm this is a cause for concern.

You see his family might not want him to be with a non italian girl. Its true.

Thus he doesnt want hi family to meet you because they wont accept you. Thats 1 theory.

The other is that he doesnt want to acknowledge you as his partner, either way it is a worry and you need to fin out what is going on

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