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writes:I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 days ago, but it still hurts down there is this normal and next time we have sex is there a way we can make it hurt less? help please!
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (10 October 2006):
 It is normal, the first time can vary from a little painful to quite painful. It depends on how large your boyfriend is and how gentle it was, duration and even wheater or not you have used tampons. now you can use some witch hazel on any sore spots or buy baby orajel and carefully dabble it around your hymen..it will give you temparary relief. It will take a year or two for it to be really without any discomfort and be careful...cause a baby is a whole new world of scream! Use condoms AT LeAST...for stds and something else too to prevent pregnancy...and never depend on your boyfriend to bring anything....if he does great. if not...you be prepared. It does not mean your a slut....it means you are smart and can take control of your life....best wishes
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006): the more u have sex the less it will hurt. u need to give it time. maybe ur still sore because ur bf wasnt gentle enough. as long as there is no abdominal cramping and presence of blood still then u will be fine. but at the moment there really isnt anything u can do to make it less painful.
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