A
female
age
30-35,
*odey
writes:Dear Cupid, I am really confused, me and my ex boyfriend have carried on being friends since we broke up our realationship two years ago. It was my choice to end the realtionhip as I felt that he didnt have feelings for me. In the last year of our relationship he used to spend more time mixing with a bad crowd his new friends then me, which I'll admit I was a bit selfish at the time, he wasn't doing drugs he started drinking and getting in trouble with the police. My step father wished for me to be with another guy which I got with about a month after ending the relationship with the my ex. I soon ended the relationship finding out that he cheated on me and that I didn't feel right and that I still had feelings for my ex. I trieed ever so hard trying to get over my ex eventually it took me a year but there was always that funny feeling in my stomach whenever a saw him. We was togehter for four years and it was my first ever seroius realtionship and the same with him. I loved his family just like my own, i was always neverus when i first started meeting them. Three months ago one of his relatives came to me asking me if i wished to get back with him and that i should. Anyway the reason why i am confused is that a month ago i asked him if he still had feelings for me and he said "yes and no but mostly yes" (which I don't understand) he then asked me and I told the truth I said yes. Recently we have been spending more and more time together enjoying each others company. The past two days we had a moment (kissed). And started kissing and cuddling more. I took a breath and said have you got a girlfriend and he replyed no, I asked him why and he said that he doesn't want to have a girlfriend. I have been missing college to see him I know I shouldn't but I can't help it. He has started realising that he had mixed with the wrong crowd and found new friends which I have met and I feel happy for him now he has done that. Now I feel that I made the biggest mistake ending the relationship with him, he was always there for me and I found that he still had this little figurine from out first anniversary. But my question that I am asking is that do you think that he still likes me and what should I do? P.S sorry I have written an assay :P. But I need help please.
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