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writes:please someone help me........ im in love with my guy best friend. we have known each other for ten years but have developed a great friendship over the last 5 years. we have just gotten into a sexual relationship......we even talk about having kids, and i can talk to him about any and eveything!!!! but he dosent want to be in a serious relationship..... should i take it as it is, or lay all my feelings on the table??????
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reader, supermum  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 have an honest chat with him, tell him how you feel and where you want this realtionship to go
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reader, ilovegreen +, writes (14 June 2008):
don't let him play with you like that. you have to lay it on the line! after 5 (10) years he either wants you or he doesn't, but it sounds like he does. give it to him straight! make him choose you or nothing. don't let the men control everything just bc they are the ones with the power to propose! good luck!
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (14 June 2008):
 I'm kind of curious why he wouldn't want a dedicated relationship with you if things have been relating so well with you now. It seems that if he's not willing to start something more serious, it seems like there's little other choice than to leave it be. Have you tried to express all this to him?
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