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writes:I started talking to this guy in 2008 we met on myspace I was just getting out of a bad relationship when we started talking...when I first started talking to him we got along so good he was like a breathe of fresh air after my last relationship I thought about getting married, having kids the whole nine. Whenever I would bring up these things to him he would just always say he is scared to get married or that he is too young for children. To make a long story short 4 years later now in 2012 I we both are 24 ..he never likes to talk about us having anything serious. He went from talking everyday to maybe once a week. His personality is so different he never expresses any feeling about me besides little sexually remarks. I have never had any sexually contact with him not even a hug or kiss. One of the biggest issues I have is when he is on the phone with me and someone ask who he is talking too he refers to me as "this girl I know" In my mind I feel he doesn't want anything serious with me. But then I also think well maybe he does since he has stuck around so long. I get so confused.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 September 2012):
 he does not want anything serious with you.
you really are "just some girl" he knows...
I'm sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2012): Its very clear sweetie, he only thinks of you as a friend...for you to be a female and him a male ...n u guys haven't had sex afta four years yea ma , and the fact that he won't even invite you into that realm if he feelings lets you know he's keeping you out of that part of him for a reason! He doesn't want to get caught up in his emotions! Make it clear how you feel about the situation....see how he responds face to face. You'll know in your heart where he truly stands good luck mama!
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