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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy at work he has been sitting across from me all the time during break and he always asks me to go do little things with him. Like dishes or bring laundry to laundry room he always asks me to go and if he bumps into me or sprays me with water he says sorry. Also he asks me if I drove to work every day. I know he likes me but the first time I told someone I liked them it didn’t work out great because that person ignored me and wanted to be only friends. I don’t think I can get together with someone? I want another boyfriend badly but I don’t want to rush him. What should I do? I’m afraid to let this guy who likes me into my life because I thought my guy friend liked me once and he made me sad. My guy friend was so distant and I had a crush on him but it never worked out. He never liked me more than friends and I was completely heartbroken. I never want that to happen with this guy should I wait for him?
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all! Let him do the asking and the chasing this time. You can show you are keen by agreeing to do these little things with him but don't you take responsibility for the chasing.
You know, not everyone will hurt you and you have to take the chance to see that that is true. And remember if it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger. We need to have set backs in relationships so that we end up spending our lives with the right person. You can't find the right person until you know what you like and dislike and that takes practice. :-) Good luck doll you will be ok.
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