A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:HiI've been out tonight drinking with some friends. Two of my friends are a couple. Their relationship is falling apart, AND YET, chances are that tonight they are going to be be at home together having sex. Same goes for 2 of my other friends who aren't really in a relationship, but are close. One of them dragged me along to meet the other one, and I eventually left them with nobody.I haven't been with a women sexually for over a year and 3 months now. It's driving me crazy! I feel like I am now officially sexually frustrated. I'm a nice guy. Lots of people tell me so. But the lack of sexual activity in my life it really getting me low. I'm sure some people on here will say "Is sex all you think is important? You shouldn't have a girlfriend if that's how you think!" But the truth is, sex isn't ALL that's important, it's just something that my body is really missing, and furthermore, I'm a very loving and respectful boyfriend. Unfortunately, nobody has shown interest in me for a long time now and I don't know why.I'm going on holiday next week. At home my parents don't allow me to bring girls home, so while I'm away, I'll be a free man, and have my best chance of meeting somebody, even if just for the night. Can anybody give me some advice that may help my chances.As I say, I don't like sounding like Sex is the only thing on my mind (because it isn't). I feel exactly the same way as anybody else who has gone a long time without it, and it's time for me to have sex again!!!!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 Welcome to the wonderful world of being single. Unfortunately it doesn't change much as you get older. It's nature's way of telling you to go out and find a girlfriend.
You're better off finding a proper girlfriend than someone 'just for the night'. Why? Because about a week after having had a one night stand you'll be craving more sex just as much as you are now, if not more.
As for advice to help your chances: all I can say is that desperation isn't sexy, so no matter how much you want it, you have to act kind of cool about the whole thing or you'll lower your chances. Which is infuriating, but there you go...
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