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writes:Well helloMe and my girlfriend just broke up and we've dated for just over three years. it was a rough break up, we both said somethings that were uncalled for. its been about a week since i saw her when we broke up but she has already moved on, shes with someone else.How can i come to help myself in this and move on, i feel very jealous and upset and im starting to realize that i cant function well without a woman in my life.What can i do?thank you very much ahead of time. =)
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reader, me84xxx  +, writes (18 October 2007):
hi i am in the same situation me and my partner split as he wanted to be single, however a week later he started to see this girl and is still with her 3 months later, i was devastated and still am, she is crazy and more serious than i ever was n now he is trapped with her threatning to kill herself if he splits with her lol. My advice is he is a rebound guy and she will only be with him so she isnt alone whilst she is trying to get over you. Thats what my ex is doing (however that doesnt soften the blow does it). think we both need to move on and forget about them as i kno i just torture myself wen i think of then together and i sure you feel the same. I always believe in karma, i pray to gos it comes back to bite our exs in the ass. Call up your friends and keep yourself busy, it will work even if for a short time it keeps your mind off it.Chin up and feel free to spk to me if u want x
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 She's moved on bro, you have to accept that. Though, her jumping into someone else's arms almost instantly is poor form. She is on the rebound and yeah it must cut you up pretty bad.
I would contact some friends etc, get busy and before long you will meet someone else.
Dude, at your age there is no point having a volatile relationship , your youth is to enjoy not spend in arguments with people you are not meant to be with. Go out with mates and rip it up. Eventually that great leveller - time - will heal your wounds.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (16 October 2007):
 If she found someone within a week, it sounds like she was looking for a way out of your relationship and had someone already "waiting in the wings".
You need to find yourself. Nobody needs someone else in their life to function. Focus on things that interest you, whether it be your career, school, hobbies, what have you.
There's a saying that goes "Do what you love and the money will follow". My version is "Do what you love and you might meet someone that has the same interests and finds you irresistable. . . but relax and enjoy the process." There's no rush to meet someone new.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): I went through the same problem as you buddy. I went out with this girl for over 2 years and we both had a falling out. I would just let time take its course then think what you really want. I think she is doing this to get back at you. You should sit down with her and tell her your true feelings. If she wants to be with that new guy you are just gonna have to accept it and cut it off. You are going through the hardest part of a break up. If I was you I would start calling some old buddies and doing some things you enjoy to do. This one girl will not define the person you will become.
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