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MammaDex
writes:-Self-reflect-Most of the time when anybody has problem in a relationship, they basically blames the other party and rarely themselves.. Y? Well, i would say its human nature to point 1 finger to the other party, while not realizing that three other fingers are pointing at them. Try thinking of it in an unbiased view, you will know that I'm right.. Its part of human way of thinking, when some things go wrong, they have to point the finger to anyone and everyone but not themself.. Its time to put a little effort to really realize where actually the problem lies..Hey, im not trying to point to anybody, i do admit as a human i too have the same flaws.. However I'm learning to be a better person.. and i choose to share with you guys..List of tips:1. Every time you face a problem, sit down and analyze what went wrong, whats the lead of it, who caused it and y..2-a. If you find the result pointing to the other party, try and find the source that trigger the other party to cause it.. 2-a1. Finally try and think of a way to avoid being the source that trigger the other party.. Then you can find the solution to the problem..2-b. If you find that the result pointing to you.. Maybe you should start thinking the solution of the problem.. normally it starts with you admitting the fault..2-b1. After you reason out with yourself, it would be much clearer what the final outcome will be... Knowing that you will have a conclusion of solving any problem you face..3. Basically, self realization and a rational thinking mind (which is not biased) will help to see a lot of things in life clearer and you tend to understand why it happens.. Thus it will help you came face to face with the terms and condition of the problem.. And you tend to find life much more relaxing and amusing... I hope this little tips help to make people learn a few things about themself... thank you... Reply to this Article
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