A
male
age
36-40,
*iljo
writes:Hello guys, a big hiii to all of you. myself am an Indian engineer working in Dubai. 5 months ago something changed my life... I had to visit Abu Dhabi which is 200 kms apart from Dubai just for a business purpose.. i visited an office in Abu Dhabi where i came across a beautiful Filipina girl.. i fell in love with her at the first sight itself. I dont have much experience with ladies but i gathered some courage and went straight to her and said hiii, she seemed quite friendly... we talked for a few minutes regarding our works and stuff... a week later i met her again at her office and this time i gifted her with a chocolate and a note saying that she was really pretty... i felt like she was flattered straight away. all this happened last november 2009... on the third visit, i asked her out straight away.. she said okie.. however i texed her later that it was supposed to be a date... after my text she rejected it saying that she wasnt ready for a date with me yet. I was shocked but composed myself n apologised to her if i hurt her by any means..i met her 3 more times again that same month and in all the 3 visits, i gave her chocolates and notes..In december she left for vacation for a month to her native place.. i tried to call her country but she never took my calls.. she came bak in january and she was so friendly to me... like she was replying my messages.. she was attending my calls.. i heard from various sources that she had an ongoing affair with some guy and that the relationship was on the verge of a breakup.. she was lookin for a new guy.. I had this in mind and i really wanted to show her that i cared for her.. i havent met her yet after she came back from her place in december.. we talk on the fone n messages.. on valentines day i sent her a bunch of roses and chocolates to her office.. i called her on valentines nite n we talked for a looong time... it continued till this february last.. since the last 13 days she is COMPLETELY AVOIDING ME... not attending my calls. rarely she texts me bak asking me to call her the next day n stuff.. again when i call her.. no reply.. it sounds so simple and childish but when a girl who was so friendly to you suddenly changes.. it hurts you... actually i want to meet her this weekend when i visit her place so that i can have a coffee with her.. so i am tryin to call her to ask her out in person... i dont think messaging and asking her out is a gud idea... she isnt takin my calls,... what shall i do?...what cud be de reason? plzz help...
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Hello. I think it is very obvious she is avoiding you and she doesn't want to be rude reasons she sometimes talk to you on the phone.
Move on with your life, forget about her, she is not into you. I know you like her a lot but if you insist you will just be hurting yourself.
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