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writes: A girl I thought was a friend is trying to make me believe that my partner is being unfaithful to me. I know he isn't but this is because her partner has been known to cheat, and is possibly cheating on her. To top it all, she is now speading nasty rumours about me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2006): She's just Jealous.she might be trying to get you and your partener to break up so she can just have him to her self.she's probley spreading rumors about you because you won't believe her and you won't break up with your partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2006): Such "friends" you don't need in your life. Talk to her in private and explain to her what a troll she's being, and that until she can sort out her anxieties like a grown-up, your friendship is suspended.
The temptation will be great, but don't sink to her level (i.e. spread retaliatory rumours). By being the mature party in this debacle, you'll throw into sharp relief how childish she is being, and other people will take notice, too.
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reader, Her to help +, writes (18 March 2006):
 This girl is not your friend if she is going to spread rumours about you. Sit her down and say to her if you still want to be friends you have got to stop preading rumours if she will not listen the just walk away as she isn't wearth be friends with.
Goodluck x
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