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male
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writes:I'm a 23 years old student who never dated. I'm virgin!!! My penis size is 5 1/4 inches, this is not the issue. I don't care about my size, iknow i can do it best...My problem is i'm shy i didn't used to mingle with girls. Do you believe that my whole life i had male friends, no females....Only very very few female friends...not more than 5, they were just general friends, the relation just went for 3 months, thats all i had with girls in my life, no sex, no romantics, nothing i'm so exhusted mentally now and my passion is very high, i have very powerfull romantic emotions, i made a fictional women in my mind who i talk with when i'm in my room, ir in a car.....I don't whats wrong with me, i feel people fear me when they talk to me eventhough, i'm a handsome man (i really dont like to say that, it sounds stupid, but many strangers come up to me and say hey, you are very good looking man)......I wish one day to get my love, hold her between my arms, i take her out to the most beautiful places....I'm bored, tired of living single, i dont want my friends, i have alot of male friends, but most of time i love to be lonely because i'm bored, i dont want friends i only need one girl in my life who i will love forever.....I talk to myself alot, i have seen many girls in my life who i really was into them and wanted to date them but i dont go to them, i feel i'm not wanted sometimes i feel people fear me with no reason, i can't live like that! i can't live with a ficitonal women in my mind who i talk to her, and flirting her......The good thing, i have seen a girl in my class, she seems polite, serious, lovely, i like to talk to her, i just got no time, after class she leaves immidately, like ghost, i don't want this term to finish without making a relation with her...I dont samething happen over and over, i should make cahnges, i dont how when i can talk to her, there is no right time...I only see her in that class and no where else....Remember, all my life with men, i have never set with a stranger girl for more than 3 hours continously except with my family members such as cousins, etc....I need to make changes, i'm glad i have seen a girl that i liked in class, i dont know how to reach her cause i only see her in class and leave, thats it...I'm kind a shy person i dont like to go out with a group of people only 2 to 3 maximum is enough, i feel that girl have the same habit....Anyway, i feel i want to talk over and over again. I need Help, I need Advise.....Thanks, i hope you understand me well as i'm my English is not my mother language....Waiting your reply...
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Dude for real you gotta actually try. Woman wont come up and just f u for no reason, you have to try, that means taking risks of being humilaed and imbarresed, shot down and cursed upon. Thats what it is, aside from sounding really strange you need to try. You will get hurt emotianally from trying but hey no pain no gain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): This is hard without really knowing how you are in person. You may come off as a weird person to people, or maybe you can come off as desperate. Maybe you are too unexpressive to some?
The thing is, it seems like in your example of the girl in your class that you have an interest in, you don't really do anything to further a possible intimate relationship. What you should do is persist a bit more - not too much or that will drive the girl away. Enough, so you can get her attention.
Example, if the girl leaves, follow her a bit and see where she goes. Hmm, maybe not, that might make you look like a stalker. ^_^ Actually, make note of her clothes, what she's carrying with her. What type of perfume is she wearing? Ask her about her interests, share your own, ask her out on a friendly basis to a movie, to a convention, to a show, or just hang out. It's trial and error. Dating and all that boy/boy, girl/girl, boy/girl stuff are all trial and error. You just have to pace it up more.
2 or 3 people is fine. Ask your close friends to help you go out as a group to make her feel more comfortable, and go to a public place with crowds, etc. Then as you get to know her, you can go out just the two of you, etc.
Remember, as with all good relationships, compromise is one of the key factors. Maybe you need to upgrade and change yourself a bit for her. ^_^
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