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14, pregnant and he may be moving to Spain!

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Question - (17 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hello

anyone there i need help

i have broken up we my bf about 3 weeks ago

now heis thinking of moving to spain to be with his cousins

we were together for 2 years

we have only ever had sex 3 times

this last week i missed my period so i waited a bit to see if it would come

it did not so yesterday i took a test i am PREGNANT

as i have not had sex with anyone other than my ex

i know it is his

i just don't know what to do

we are both so young

if he doesn't decide to move he will be going in 2 months

i don't know what to do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009):

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we did use protection

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

Dont worry im not going to be one of those people that say 'why didn't you use protection' or that 'your to young to have sex' because whats done is done.

But i personally would tell your Ex straight away, because he needs to think things through because hes going to be a dad. Also do your parents no? Because you should tell them so they can dicuss it with his parents and figure out what you can do because your child needs their father.

But on the other hand do you want to keep this baby?

But before you make any drastic decisions like that you need to talk to your Ex and your parents.

I hope ive helped and Good luck for the future :)

I dont agree with the way people jugde teenage pregnances, as no ones stupid enough to not no that most teenagers are having intercourse and your just the unlucky one.

So good luck in the future.

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