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writes:here are my promblems ...-my dad died 3years ago when i was 10, i miss him so much-ive fallen out with all my mates, i cant live without them-my big brother hates my, and i mean hates me, he wont talk to me and hasnt for a year, he moved to russia because of me.-ive got depression-i HATE my mum, she is horrible-i HATE my mums boyfriend i cant stand him-im living with my nan, but she makes me feel like a dissapointment-my ex cheated on me and my current boyfriend is aswell-my teachers refer to me as a 'selfish, selfcenterd, spoilt brat' i get name calling by them EVERYDAY-my mum wont let me move school-i want to move to a diffrent town for a while, with my auntie but i dont know how she would react i dont know what to do anymore i dont have a lot of family left they are all dieing and my best friend died not long ago and we've just been told he was murdered, please help me im only 14 and i hate my life so much, im getting bullied at home and in school... please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): I am 14 and I genuinly feel for you. I am lucky I suppose, but at 14 you feel as though you hate everything anyway. Do not let thes problems affect your future. Put it this way, early teens are the worst EVER!! You will learn to be strong and just get through these years. Believe me, your problems will disappear. Just imagine for the time being that al your problems are non-existent. How do you feel? Good? Count your blessings!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): Thats a hell of a problem to have at 14 trust me you need to go if life is that bad. Family should love and care for you and if they dont they are undescribable. Don't store up your feelings either - let it all out and leave behind what isn't worth it. Make something out of your life and don't let your situation affect your future. Hope this helps. Keep positive anyone who is human is here for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2007): Hi sweetieA lot of problems you are facing....especially on Christmas eve. You really have a list of things that are not going right hun. Are you in danger in any way...that is what is on my mind. In reading your post it sounds as if things carry on as they have I worry that you might get in with the wrong people. It sounds as if you have some affection for your aunt even though you say you think you disappoint her. Again it sounds like you are being hard on yourself and she may care more than you know. If you are not in danger then you might be best to stay with your aunt for now. It sounds like you are in a bit of a bad place hun. Your life has been rough up to now and that has made you difficult and rough for people to deal with and then you have trouble with people because of this. Given half a chance you could become a terrific person but you need better luck to come your way. Perhaps a change, if just for awhile would be good for you. Are you going anywhere for your Christmas break. In Canada we have something called the KIDS HELP PHONE and wondered there in Britain could suggest something similar. Just some great people you can call when you need someone to talk to...it is an 800 number so no charge.I know what it is like if the school you are in is not working....is there anyone at the school you are at now who could see about doing the change for you...if you had someone to back you up it could happen. If you start at a new place take it slow, get involved and things could be better.If you are depressed let your aunt know. Too much has happend in your young life and counselling should make a difference. I know I am in Canada...the other side of the world and am just about to get in my car and drive in a canadian blizzard to see my sister and mom but something made me stop and read your post. Merry Christmas hun. Keep us all posted on how you are doing.
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reader, nikandme  +, writes (24 December 2007):
 im 14, all i can say is i wish i could help. my girl friend's life was kinda the same way. i would ask you'r auntie. mine would let me stay with her if i had to. but i have other places to go if i had to. i think you should try to talk to you'r mother and try to work some thing's out. she must care about you. or she would not be paying for you to go to school. i know about this becouse i have friends that have had mothers who wont even do that much. and that had to move in with us for a while till thay found a place to go. i think other's will be more help then me but i can feel your pain in a way.good luck, god bless.
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