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writes: hello i am 13 an i am so very woried that i havn't snogged a boy every one else in my year have and i have only ever had one real boyfreind what should i do because i realy want to get off with a boy but none of the boys at skool like me and i dont know any boys that i like outside of school ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): i want a bf 2 but no one likes me. not fair!!!
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reader, Mel_UK +, writes (11 January 2006):
Hey dont worry, I'm 17, nearly, and i still havent snogged a guy or had a boyfriend, trust me, i want one too and it does annoy me sometimes that everyone who is seemingly prettier than me tend to get a guy quite easily, but then again its your personality that counts and being confident and knowing what you want. I wouldnt get too anxious about it though. Maybe other people are only snogging guys because they want to fit in.Mel
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2006): I think you don't need a boyfriend.You can survive without a boyfriends
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005): PEOPLE IN YOUR YEAR SAY THEY HAVE BUT I BET THEY ALL HAVN'T REALLY! THEY'RE JUST SYING THAT BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO BE IN YOUR POSITION.ANYWAY, DONT JUST SNOG ANYONE ESPECIALLY BECAUSE ITS URE 1ST TIME. WAIT FOR A SPECIAL MOMENT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2005): PEOPLE IN YOUR YEAR SAY THEY HAVE BUT I BET THEY ALL HAVN'T REALLY! THEY'RE JUST SYING THAT BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT TO BE IN YOUR POSITION.ANYWAY, DONT JUST SNOG ANYONE ESPECIALLY BECAUSE ITS URE 1ST TIME. WAIT FOR A SPECIAL MOMENT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2005): I am 13 to these people say its just peer presure but its not. We realy do want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): OMG!!!! I am 13 and I feel the exact same way. I however do have boys that like me. But, I dont like them I dont know what to do either but I can tell you that you are not alone.
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reader, not again +, writes (24 November 2005):
i am 23 and i didnt kiss someone til i was 17! That was fine with me. I'm not saying it'll be the same with you but gee wizz, you're only 13! Peer pressure seems to be the only reason that you want to do it- surely you're stronger than that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): What I can’t comprehend is why you are so desperate to find a boy to have a sexual encounter with. How can you even think to allow yourself to be used, dear. It seems you have mistaken sex for affection or even love. Just because someone has sex with you doesn’t mean that any affection exists. Just because he is nice, doesn’t mean he has anything but a sexual interest in you and that makes him a very selfish person.And this could cause you a lot of heartache, hun.
Sex can drive one's heart. That is why sex is precious. Only have sex when you are in a relationship with someone who loves you, who cares for you, and who will appreciate the gift of your body and emotions. Please talk with your Mom about your feelings. If you can't try to see if you can get help from a school counselor or a trusted adult for their input, dear. You need some clarification and directionsal guidance on life, love and sex. I wish you the best dear...just keep respecting yourself-don't allow yourself to be used. You are much more special, strong person that you think. Resist and wait until you are older and find someone who truely treasures you. Take Care.
Hugs, Irish
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2005): You are 13 and you haven't snogged a boy. Does it matter? Which do you want more: a romantic and real first kiss, or a rushed kiss that you only had to take "pressure" off of you. Chances are, not all of the girls in your year have genuinely kissed a boy; many of them are probably lying. And, when you say you want to get off with a boy, what do you mean? If you mean sex, my advice to you would be that you should not be having it yet anyway. If you do have sex, it needs to be with a long term boyfriend, and besides, if you have sex with a boy you don't like or are not going out with, word will spread and you will get a bad reputation. As to meeting knew boys, why not join a club outside school? That way, you have a common interest with them, and can start conversations easily. Good luck, and don't do anything you think you might regret afterwards.
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