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writes:me an my ex have finally got talking after a couple of months of awkwardness i still love him and have missed him alot since we broke up.i dont know whether i should tell him or not?and if i do what words should i used and what do i say ?please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all
If this helps we broke up because he felt that we had drofted apart it didn't help before we broke up he had gone away for a month so we didn't see each other
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys
If this helps the only reason why we broke up is because he felt we had drifted apart and it didn't help that he has been away for a month so we barely saw eachother
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2011): You got to say the truth to him tell him you know what I really love you!thats all you got to do be happy and make him happy with your truth! But dont exagerate to much that you love him cause he will get tired of it make sure he tells you the truth to.but you need to tell him the truth before he finds someone that will spread the truth of love to him good luck.
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reader, Christinaa  +, writes (21 May 2011):
 I think you should say what you really feel, it might be awkward because your putting your feelings out there but at least he knows how you feel.I, myself are in a similar situation but i havent delt with it yet. So i wouldnt know exactly what choice of words to lend you. But as long as its sincere and comes from the heart im sure hell understand. Good luck :)
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reader, Delilah1990 +, writes (21 May 2011):
 Hey there, I'm going to have to say, depending on what the situation is. Depends on how and why you guys broke up. My opinion is that if he broke up with you then there was obvious reason as to why he did this. If that's the case and you don't know why, then ask him about it talk it through. I know the awkward stage after a break up. My boyfriend and I were together for 2 and a half years and when we broke up we were really close but then we went through about 3 months of an awkward stage and then back to hanging out every day, just until recently when I got a new boyfriend did we stop talking. I know the feeling of still having feelings for an ex, my suggestion is don't tell him straight up that you still have feelings for him, but become close friends again, but not too close where you're going to get hurt if he happens to end up with a new girlfriend, be the girl that he fell in love with when you two first started dating. Be his "pal" on not clingy. When things start to get better, then you can tell him. You don't want to be straight forward because it'll make him resent you and he will think that he has you wrapped around his finger, so just be the girl that he once fell in love with.
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