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writes:Heya iv been dating my girlfriend now for quite a few months she is at the same college as me and on the same course so we do see each other four days a week. My problem is that she never comes out to see me out of college. I have told her about it and she says shes mad about me and stuff like that and shes sorry for being a bad gf and that shes goin through a though time in her life so i accepted it and waited to give her time. After a while she started to tell me she will come out then she makes up an excuse why she cant do like she has to go and see her friend. I broke up with her and we had a big argument and i managed to ask her if she had cheated on me and she fully assured me that she didnt i do believe her. But anyway i couldnt seem to stop talking to her and we made up, she told me how much she loves me and that shes sorry. She is still doing the same things and i know i should break up with her but i couldnt stand to see her with someone else. I guess im either looking for an answer to what a should do when il break up with her again or i want to find out what her problem could be why she doesnt see me and if its happend to anyone else because i would love to be stay with her. O and she did have a very serious relationship with her ex she was with him for a couple of years and she told me she was with him everyday but that was about a year ago but i still think thats why i find it so hard not to see her properly. Thanks for reading and i would fully appreciate it if you could give me some answers. Thanks again xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): Personally, I think you should tell her what you just told us and ask her why she's acting like this. Maybe she's confused about her feelings? She may just be a little shy or something. But whatever happens, you musn't blame yourself because it seems that you haven't done anything wrong, and if you're willing to forgive her so much, thats so kind of you. It's nice to hear you're being so nice to her about it. But just try and make her feel as comfortable and loved as possible, and have a conversation about it. You really need to tell her how you feel about her never seeming to be with you, and you might then get to the bottom of it. If the talk still doesn't change anything, then maybe you need to rethink your relationship. You deserve more than this honey, so make sure you're fully happy with you relationship. Don't settle for second best, I'm sure you're a great guy. Good luck :]
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reader, lil miss blond3 her answerin ur questions +, writes (18 February 2008):
 Well if you can't bear to see her with somone else then you probably aren't meant to finish it, talk to her again when you're both relaxed about your problem and help her out, give her the opportunity to talk to you and get close to you. The best way is to talk to her as well and try to get her to give you full conversations, hope I have helped good luck with it xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): I think your girlfriends problems are to do with her previous relationship with her ex if she was with him every day and now they ain't together then maybe she's realized that being together every day doesn't work in a realtionship due to her previous ones...
If that ain't the problem then I guess you should sit her down and ask her to be truthful with you about her feelings for you and if it turns out she feels the same way you do about her then make your relationship work if she doesn't want the same you do then call it off and go your separate ways but try and be friends...
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