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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hiya..this is gna be long and confusin so try and understand plz!! Well i had a bf called Tom* and we had been goin out for just about a month when this other guy told me he liked me.. James* Tom is 13 and im 13 and james is 16 but he was 15 at the time.the more started to talk 2 james on msn the more i started to like him and was startin to think about finishin tom for him as he wanted to ask me out..i thought about it very very carefully and decided to finish tom i cried for hours and hours and this made me realise i still loved him but tried 2 ignore it.. 2 days later james asked me out and i said yes i really did like im and i wasnt jus playin him along the night he asked me out we had a bit of a disagreement we were talkin and i told im he wud obv. want more than jus a kiss and he agreed bt told me he would wait until i wanted to do thingz and i told him i wudnt wna do anythin like that and he said ok i will wait to do it with other ppl wen we split up..nt nastily if u get me..but neway i finished it bcoz we werent gettin on and u dnt no how much it hurt me doin this..he said we needed 2 forget bout each other and get on with our lives but i jus couldnt anyway..another 2 days later i asked tom bak out n he sed yeah..we went out 4 a week then he finished me and he told every1 different reasons and i still dont no the true reason its gone about a week and a half since he dumped me and hes just asked me bak out but james is sposed 2 be askin me out!! i really dont no what to do! james is gonna ask me when hes ready but i dnt no wen tht will be! ive hurt both of them and ive upset myself and im just so confused plz help!!!..X.x..April..x.X..
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): Well u should get things moving wiv James urself then as boys can take years pluck up the courage 2 ask girls out!Go up 2 him nd say look I know u fancy me nd I fancy u so will u go out wiv me?Sum fin along those lines!
Hope this helps!x
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reader, blackbeltcadet  +, writes (18 April 2007):
Make a list of pro's and cons about both, then throw the list away and listen to your heart. Which ever one you can see yourself growin old with is the one for you. Ad if you see both, go with the one you really love... not just have a crush on, but honest to God love, because if you base a relationship on lust it'll just end quickly and badly
And rememer that you are only 13... you will have many other boys if neither of them work out. so dont sweat it.
Good luck
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