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female
age
36-40,
*REAM69
writes:Hey, me again. Things have improved since last time I wrote. Now we have encountered a new problem. It's hard for me to have an orgasm. This upsets him and frustrates me. What can we do? The only time I'm able to get off is if he goes down on me, or it's hard and fast, but neither of us want it hard and fast all the time. I'm at a loss. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): After I gave birth to my son I had this problem. You have to keep reminding yourself that having an orgasm is as much mental as it is physical. Take as much time as you need, if you are not put into the mood correctly then mentally you will not want to orgasm. Also my sure that who ever is on top...both of you are putting in work. It helps to find your inner G spot better.
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