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writes: hi. i'm 16 and i really fancy this guy.my friends have told me we flirt.since my party we're always poking and smiling at each other. then my friend told me she has seen him staring. and also..when i was getting stressed he sat with me and grabbed my hands to calm me down.then last night at a party, we were in my friends bedroom for half an hour. on our own, just talking.he accused me of touching his ass, but i didn't.then my other mates came in, and turned on the lights, and we were just messing around.he then got up and i poked him. so he grabbed me, through me on the bed and sat on my lap. then his mates were joking around saying we were going to have sex, so they turned off the light and ran out. so there was just me and the guy in the room, then he pushed him self back on me. and he was just laid on top of me.then when the others came back and i got him off me, he turned to me and said that will be an experience you'll never forget. just joking around. then when i was on the floor, he offered to help me up. then i was messing around with him, putting a sock in his face [stupid i know. i was drunk] so he just seemed all over me, trying to get the sock off me, play fighting for 5 minutes, and we were just laughing and having a great time. we were getting on really well last night, i was so happy to just be on my own with him. my mate asked him if he liked me, he said just as a friend. but i've told others how he is with me, and people are saying they'd say he was flirting.i really don't know what to think. but i like him a lot. he's a really nice guy and decent and genuine. he makes me feel wanted and cared for. i really like him and i can't tell if he does like me or not. if he's flirting or not. is he flirting? and if he is.. do you think he likes me? and if soo.. what do i do?!?!?! because i've never been in a situation like this before really.help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): if he grabs your hands then well..he loves you! or has deep feelings for you. he looks at you with great interest, this is a good sign.
okay..i think he got a bit too horny with you then...with the lights out..blimey..maybe this means he wants to be with you when your both older.
i think this is definate flirting, and he says to your mates he likes you just as a friend..but flirts when your both alone..maybe you should find out for yourself, ask him if he likes you more than a friend or if he had a good time the other night.
speak to him face to face and ask him if he likes you more than a friend, if you cant speak face to face, speak online or get his mobile number and text him, tell him how you feel etc...or even ask him out!
i hope this advice works.good luck!
pluck up the courage to ask him how he feels about you, so you know for sure, and not get mixed messages from your friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2008): I think he does like u and u could have a chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2007): Hi,My names amy i'm 16 too. I've had just the same situation as you! yes! believe it or not!OF COURSE, he likes you just maybe take it step by step...gradually you'll get to the bottom of it. "i like her as a friend" well this signalls he DOES like you, why else would he be doing all this stuff to you?? why does he let you talk, and touch him think about it and take it step by step. GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2005): well he is definitly flirting with you! its cute that you have a good time together and it seems like he does like you. you should ask him even if it is joking around. or tell him how you feel tell him you have feelings for him and tell him you have a good time with him. guys appreciate that and maybe he is just too nervous to admit he likes you cause he is afraid to get turned down. its better to do something about it then just stay wondering what if...
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reader, nessabergen +, writes (26 November 2005):
Well...I think that he is flirting with you, especially if he was laying on top of you, and holding your hands to calm you down. That shows that he cares. And to not try anything when you were drunk...that also shows that he cares. I don't know if he likes you or not, but i think you should talk to him, and eventually when you think the moment is right... ask him, see what he says. It could make you very happy. So just talk to him, a lot of things will get answered then.
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