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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I honestly dont know what to do so I think I need some help...I have loved someone for a very long period of time(upwards of 3 years now) and although nothing has happened between us because he insists on being straight when stuff has happened like touching each other on several occasions, I deeply miss him. I just dont know what to do half them time because I feel empty and its only been a few weeks. We have left school now but ive not only lost someone I love but also seemed to have lost a good mate.I guess I have two questions..1) What can I do to be feeling so lonely? I keep thinking of him and the time we spent together... and in a way it kinda feels like im grieving.and 2) i dont know what to do about this whole love thing, he has said he loves me on few occasions and he says it like he means it but its like a brotherly thing then a romantic thing. Also our conversation start normal like saying hey and asking the basics but he'll then say something about a girl he has apparently banged and then end up talking about his on and off girlfriend and how he is guna break up with her again... and then the conversation either ends with him just leaving/going offline or he will say something about us which normally promps the.. "i love you mate" thing At the minute my outlook on things is - Love sucks... and im stuck on this elephant of a love with this guy and im slowly feeling worse and I dont want to become that lonely guy that nobody likes because he's a downer to be around so I need help ASAP
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2012): Well man if you dont want to be a downer, its time to move on, be honest with yourself this isnt going anywhere with him he is using you.
Get out there with your friends and meet new people and have fun, be happy with what you have with friends and family and your wont be that guy. Be positive and youll be a happy person and more fun to be around, trust me man i was that guy, i learned to appreciate what i have and im a lot more happy with a better outlook on life.
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