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writes:Well its like this.I've been with this new girlfriend for a few weeks and because she has been through hell in life and i mean really HELL,she also made some bad decisions boyfriend-wise.She isnt from my home town(she originaly stayed at the country side , now she is in my home town) but we are both together in same college and she is living at my mom's friend's place.She already told me how deep her feelings are for me since im nothing like the other guys and that she has found her soul-mate and so on.I truly believe that and i'm starting to feel the same cause she is very special.And its clear that our relationship will go deep and for long and i really want it to go that way.She said she loves me a lot of times in the most sincere way possible.BUT in summer-break i have to go with my father to his home-country "Liban" for 2 weeks,and she will stay at the country side where there are some boys ( friend who im sure are interested ),and girls ofc but thats not the issue.And she even admit to me that she has the bad habit of betraying (like she betrayed her bf to be with his best friend),but that when I am concerned she will not do this and will do everything in her power possible to not.I truly believe her but i cant stop feeling so enourmously jealous about her being alone at the country side for 2 weeks.Me being in another country.Should i feel this way and what the heck should i do.Because i want to trust her and i truly believe she loves me.We have been thourgh some very special conversations and situations that prove our desire to be soul-mates for one-another.BUt i still feel so jealous about those 2 weeks im like going crazy in my head thinking about it.I know i shouldnt over react and trust her if she in love with me but I dont know...Pls help and thank you :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): I know how you feel. My girlfriend and I are very much in love. After meeting the way we did, and the way our relationship is growing, we believe God had a hand in us meeting, and that we are soulmates. She recently moved pretty far away, and we only get to see each other every couple months, though Im planning on moving to be closer to her by the fall. She admits to having a very wild past, and she has more guy friends than I am comfortable with. I get jealous too. I recommend talking to her about it. We let each other know how we feel, and know that we have to make compromises. Being somewhat jealous shows that you care for her, but too much jealousy can cause problems. Just be honest, and take it from there. I cant give too much advice here because Im still working on this myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): honestly sweetie if theres no trust you cant stay in a relationship you need 100% trust I'm sorry if thats not the answer you were looking for but truth be told.Good luck hun
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