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*onfusedlvr
writes:I asked out my friend, a little over a year ago, and she said she can't date me because she doesn't want to risk losing my friendship. We hung out as friends, and we had a few romantic moments and unofficial dates. I don't talk to her as often anymore, before it was twice or three times a day, now its once every two weeks or so. Any tips on how to get out of the friend zone? Or am I already out of it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): My advice, just from experience, is to remain slightly aloof, yet friendly. If you even act like you care at this point, back in the friend zone you'll go. I mean, be yourself, of course, just be exceptionally cool and calm.
You see how she acted when you hadn't talked to her? You were a challenge again. Don't stop being a challenge.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Ask her where exaclty your relationship stands. If she doesn't want to be with you then you'll find out by asking her.
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reader, confusedlvr +, writes (14 July 2007):
confusedlvr is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe saw each other again a few days ago, and she complained about how we never talk anymore, and she gave me a big, long hug. I haven't had a chance to kiss her since i've known her, so I think I have a chance to start again. What should I do this time? I don't know how to approach her without getting nervous, and she is always more energetic and friendly to me.
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