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He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Eddie, I have no intentions of sleeping in the same bed with this person. Not a chance. He travels for his job, and is all over the world....meeting women. Tell me how you would respond if someone said that to you (if you were single and in my sh... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Eve, Thanks for the sane response. Yes... I'm smitten, but also, like I stated before, we don't live near one another, and I've had it happen to me (cheating). I know what it feels like, and I would never do that to someone. Ever. My reason for my p... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Ha! I just read your responses to a friend of mine, and she's as dumbfounded as I that you have ignored everything that I have said. EVERYTHING! eyeswideopen, you would be a terrible Editor. You have disregarded all of the facts that I have stated, ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Where did it state in my post that I was flirting? Where? NOTHING in my post states that I was flirting! NOTHING! ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: From the amount of comments that you (and Eddie) post on this site, it seems like you have nothing other to do than be "right all the time". It would probably be a good idea if you ventured away from your computer, stepped out your front door, and ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Why are the both of you hell bent on believing that you can't have a friendship with someone who's married if you're "smitten" with them? That is absolutely ridiculous, and far from the truth. As a matter of fact, I have a best friend (one of the ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Sorry to burst your bubble.....but I do travel with men, and sleep in the same quarters, all the time. It's usually three of us, a married guy, my best friend (who's a woman), and I. Their wives have no issues with it at all. If they did, it ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Yes....I have women friends that let me sleep in the same bed as their husbands. I have an unusual hobby, so I travel with men all time, and stay in the same hotel room with them, and their wives have no poblem with it what so ever. You assume it's ... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   3 January 2009: Thanks for your response. Let me respond to some of your questions, and/or comments about me. First off, I'm far from naive. I've been around long enough to know how it feels when your spouse cheats. Why? Because it's happened to me....mo... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   2 January 2009: Also, I would like to add, I would have no problem hanging out with his wife. If he keeps it a secret from her, it's his choice, not mine.... (read in full...)

He's married - is it still possible for me to have a friendship with him?

Q.   I met a (married) guy quite some time ago, and he was recently working in the town where I live in. I stopped by to see him while he was working (he asked me to). When I saw him, he seemed quite flustered when we were chatting. We were planning on ...

A.   2 January 2009: How is it that I stepped over the line? By emailing him, and chatting with him when he's in town? I think not. The banter we have is simply harmless. I have done NOTHING that would hurt his relationship and never will. I was just thrown by his ... (read in full...)

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