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What is the general opinion on restarting things with an ex?

Q.   okay so me and my ex have just started talking again after three months. and we hung out the other night and we held hands and kissed and stuff...but i'm begining to wonder if going back out with an ex would be a bad thing. so if any of you have any ...

A.   27 November 2007: Don't just assume that problems you had before will be magically solved or forgotten about. Make sure that things really are different. But I wouldn't suggest hooking up again if he's just "on a break" from his current girlfriend. Make sure that t... (read in full...)

We did it every day, now my husband relieves himself to Internet porn, I'm getting nothing, please help me?

Q.   Me and my husband have been married for over 15 years we ve had normal ups and downs over the years but nothing extreme. our sex life has been excellent usually every day sometimes more than once i had no complaints.i recently had to accept a job wo...

A.   27 November 2007: Talk to him about it. He may avoid the issue, but try to have an adult conversation about it is step one.... (read in full...)

I'm getting threatening calls from strangers who claim to know me, saying they're going to beat me up! What can I do?

Q.   Hii .. i keep getting prank phone calls of an annonomus number they keep threatenin me to batter me for a reason that isn even true makin excuses up to pick on me and stuff .. im so scared in case they jump me . they o my name were i live and my o...

A.   26 November 2007: I'd say contact the police. This is at least harrassment and possibly something much worse. If they police do not deal with it themselves they should be able to recommend to whom you should speak.... (read in full...)

After thinking on it for a week, she rejected me. Now she's being flirty! What's going on?

Q.   Hi, I asked a girl out and it took her 1 week to say no. then she began flirting with me alot. is she trying to say somthing and what do i do?... thanks...

A.   26 November 2007: You can ask her out again. But she may say no again. But she could say yes. As far as I can see, you've already "taken the risk" and been knocked back. You have, as far as I can see, much less to lose this time, and if you're still interest... (read in full...)

I need some advice on how to cope with being in a relationship. Please help!

Q.   Alright so I'm looking for some advice on how to overcome this... I have no problem talking to girls, I'll speak my mind and think nothing of it. But when it comes to talking with girls I actually like I get all nervous and shy, especially when ...

A.   26 November 2007: Practice speaking to girls you really like. Just speak to them all the time. It'll get easier. Remember that many girls who know that you're usually a confident speaker, who see you getting all flustered talking to them, will take it as a complime... (read in full...)

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