How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!
Q. I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...
A. 3 April 2017: Thank you aunt honesty for your answer, it is simple, i know. I think he may feel sorry for me, and he is trying to be a good friend. This Saturday he invited me to his house to have coffee with him and his wife. I have been before, but this time ... (read in full...)
How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!
Q. I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...
A. 24 March 2017: Thank you Honeypie, you have given me a bit of resolve. Initially I sort of agreed he could pick me up for an exhibition that we had both been invited to, but after chewing it over for a couple of days, I plucked up courage and rang him to say that ... (read in full...)
How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!
Q. I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...
A. 22 March 2017: Oh Honeypie, this is part of the problem. We both belong to the same group, and I organise the trips. He has been very kind in suggesting places, and taking me out to have a look at them. It has been very helpful, but one day we were out and he ... (read in full...)
How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!
Q. I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...
A. 22 March 2017: Thank you so much Honeypie and Youcannotbeserious. You are both 5 stars, I take your advice and must stiffen my resolve, and not get myself sucked into a situation that I don't want. I have this feeling of danger for a reason, it is there to ... (read in full...)
How can I cool this without offending him? I'm feel anxious!
Q. I am 70 and have been a widow for 8 years, a married man has been very kind, but recently bought me a rose plant, took me to lunch, and a couple of other visits. He is ok as a friend, the places we have visited are not of interest to his wife, but ...
A. 22 March 2017: He and I are artists, his wife is not an artist, I am certain that she wouldn't like to go out sketching or looking at exhibitions. My late husband would have been very bored going out sketching with me, I might have been able to drag him to an ex... (read in full...)
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