Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?
Q. Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...
A. 25 April 2013: Thank you, everyone for you insight and advice. We'll be trying our luck with counseling and go from there. We had a pretty deep discussion and he said if I want to talk about his past, we can talk about it. But I feel it'd be easier for us to ta... (read in full...)
Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?
Q. Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...
A. 25 April 2013: Actually yes, he got married about a year after her death (I honestly feel because he never grieved) and his ex-wife was a complete and utter psycho that did deface his deceased girlfriends grave. I've talked to both his parents about the ex-wife. ... (read in full...)
Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?
Q. Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...
A. 24 April 2013: He's said that in the past, even right after her death, he couldn't talk to anyone. Not even his family. Everyone just told him to get over it and quit being a wuss. And since then, every time he's tried to just talk about it, he gets shutdown... (read in full...)
Due to be married in two weeks. But I get slightly jealous about his deceased fiance. Is the problem my jealousy or the grief he's never resolved from the past?
Q. Okay, my fiancé and I are set to be married in two weeks. We own a home together and have two beautiful, amazing kids. We have what many consider a "perfect" relationship, as no one has ever seen us argue/fight/be upset with each other, etc. We'...
A. 24 April 2013: Thank you, everyone, for your responses. And yes, the first time he mentioned her he did not say she had passed. I wouldn't necessarily say he's trying to change me or control me, he does think I'm perfect in my own way and he compliments me all the ... (read in full...)
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