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My husband was addicted to porn and it has ruined our relationship.

Q.   I am 29, I have 3 children and with my husband 11 years, married nearly 3 years. My relationship has been hell for nearly 3 years. It all started when my husband got a private lap dance on his stag night. I know it sounds relatively minor...

A.   8 December 2015: Thank you for the response guys, I know it was a long post to get through. I really don't know what to say at the moment I'm so confused. I have taken in your good advise and I am going to try and forget the sordid mess he has brought into my life ... (read in full...)

What's the best way to help a tired girlfriend in a long distance relationship?

Q.   Hiya, In a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, at first swe was always texting so many times a day even though she has two jobs and we always managed to see each other every couple weeks. But past couple weeks she has been distant, ...

A.   7 December 2015: It obvious isn't it? Surprise her. Show up at the door with a massive bouquet of flowers. Yes you may miss a days work but she will remember it forever and he will be her hero. Life is about those moments :)... (read in full...)

He had a private lap dance at his stag and now I'm having serious doubts about marrying him!

Q.   I am getting married next week and I am having serious doubts. We have been to together 8 years (since we were 18) engaged for 5 and we have 2 children. We had a pretty much perfect relationship until his stag. About a week after he returned...

A.   28 July 2014: It has been about 16 months since my original post and I thought I would give everyone an update. Well I did marry him and I'm still convinced I made the wrong decision. I always thought it was a cliche but it's true, once the trust is gone it'... (read in full...)

Non stop unresolved arguments

Q.   For the first year or so of our married life was great but now we are plagued by frequent enflamed arguments which cannot be resolved. The rows often come out of the blue and the cause is unknown. I cool down after a few minutes and my feelings are ...

A.   28 July 2014: I am guilty of given my husband the silent treatment after an argument. It is normally out of utter despair. I simply can't have the same argument over and over and over again. After having explained myself again and again about the same thing, I ... (read in full...)

I made a big issue of my husband not being able to about his dead mom!

Q.   I feel my partner has never properly grieved for his Mother. She passed away when he was 14 after battling with cancer for years but her death came quite suddenly. He has younger brothers who were 10 and 8 at the time. He is now 27. This is litera...

A.   17 April 2013: I thought I would update you on how things are going. He went for his first counselling session a few days ago and it went really well. He came out quite emotional like I thought he might. But he has been given some very good advice on where to ... (read in full...)

He had a private lap dance at his stag and now I'm having serious doubts about marrying him!

Q.   I am getting married next week and I am having serious doubts. We have been to together 8 years (since we were 18) engaged for 5 and we have 2 children. We had a pretty much perfect relationship until his stag. About a week after he returned...

A.   27 March 2013: Me again. I do understand what you are saying "cerberus". I don't believe he thought he could lose his family over this but he knew I would be devastated and feel betrayed. Not the best feeling to give your future wife weeks before your wedding. ... (read in full...)

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