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I am a mum to 7 children eldest is 18 the youngest 4, i am on my second marriage and my 2 youngest children are from this marriage my first marriage ended because of domestic violence, i spent a few years being a single parent i have suffered from depression and panic attacks

I'm 14 and I'm 9 weeks pregnant! I'm so scared..what should I do?

Q.   im 14 and have just found out i am 9 weeks pregnant. i cant tell my mam because she will kill me and need advise im so scared and dont no what to do please help....

A.   25 October 2006: Have you someone you can trust ie a teacher or relative that you could tell and who could be with you and help you tell your mum, She will probally go mad and be upset and disappionted but believe me she will calm down and probally be very supp... (read in full...)

How can I settle my twins at nursery ? They both got hysterical when I tried to leave them and the nursery told me to leave!!!

Q.   Fear of Nursery School I have 3 year old twins, a boy and a girl. Recently I tried to start them at Nursery school. The initial problem occured with my son when I left. He became hysterical and could not be comforted. This did not abate with t...

A.   17 October 2006: I do not think that this will emotionally damage them in anyway. Most children behave like this when the first start nursery and even school. I think that the nursery have delt with this badly try asking the nursery if you could stay with them for ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and having regular sex with my BF - does that make me a slut?

Q.   I love my boyfriend and we have regular sex. I am only fourteen but we have been going out for six months and i adore him. We did most oral sex in the first month and like now its moved on. Am i a slut?...

A.   5 October 2006: No sweetheart is does not make you a slut, but you must be very careful and have protected sex try talking to your doctor he will not tell you parents and see about going on the pill but please also make sure that your boyfriend also uses protection ... (read in full...)

My child can be nasty to others for no reason, what can I try to calm her ?

Q.   My child keeps hurting other children for apparently no reason. I use warnings, naughty step, etc. but she carries on. What shall I do?...

A.   5 October 2006: toddlers often act like this and it is very upsetting and embarrassing for parent, when she is being like this remove her from the situation with a firm no thats not nice , try playing sharing games with her because if she is a only child or even if ... (read in full...)

My 5 Year old keeps pulling her hair out! Any tips to stop her ??

Q.   my 5 year old daughter is pulling her hair out i dont know wat i can do to stop this it started when she went to school she only does this there ive had her at doctors there have given me shampoo to thicken her hair but think that the only way to ...

A.   5 October 2006: Have you looked into wether she is being bullied at school, she could also have seperation issues and this could also be caused by stress, it is a big event starting school and as she is only doing it there and not when she is at home which to me ... (read in full...)

How can I stop my son from using such foul language ?

Q.   my son has now started school, and the last couple of weeks, has been using bad language. he has not said it to me, but to other children. i have told him off countless times but it`s not working, please help. ...

A.   5 October 2006: The threat of soap or washing up liquid in mouth works wonders The trouble is when they start school they copy their class mates and older children and they think they are being big and clever and naughty words are funny to them and they get a reac... (read in full...)

I am a single mum with a 4 year old son, how will failed relationships affect him?

Q.   I am a single mum, my little boy is 4. In the past 2 years i have had 3 boyfreinds and my little boy had a close relationship with two of them. I am concerned about how the relationships ending will affect my little boy,. Any thoughts or experiences ...

A.   5 October 2006: While the break up of any relationship will have an effect on him, it should not effect him too much in the long run. As long as you are givin him a stable and loving home life and he feels secure he will be ok. as hard as it is try not to show ... (read in full...)

My daughter is badmouthing us to her grandparents... Am I wrong to keep the history of her conversations on MSN ?

Q.   Hi, I am having problems with my 15yr old step daughter. I think she has been bad mouthing me and her dad to her grand parents and her aunt and uncle (this is her mums parents and her mums sister and brother-in-law). My husband (step daughters dad) ...

A.   4 October 2006: This sounds like quite normal teenage behaviour, I do not think you should read what she is writing on msn as this will cause alot more upset and bad mouthing, but you must let her know that this is not acceptable and get her father to back you up. ... (read in full...)

How can we change her " wide awake" time around ??

Q.   Hi :) My daughter is 1 mth old and bottled fed. She has one particular feed in the early hours after which she simply is awake for about 2 hours! During the day she feeds and settles immediately and is an easy baby. For example this a.m it was ...

A.   4 October 2006: Please dont worry she will settle into a routine a few tips i can offer you are as follows Try to keep her awake during the day or early evening for a little while amuse her with toys etc a warm bath will sometimes settle her to While she has her ... (read in full...)

Going to supper wat his parent's home...should I take flowers or is this inappropriate?

Q.   I've got to meet my boyfriends parents! I've never been introduced to a boyfriends parents before, or felt the need to introduce them to mine. Im a bit nervous. Any advice? I would like to take some flowers for his mum, as she is cooking d...

A.   4 October 2006: I think that flowers for his mum is a lovely idea and that she would really like it. It is perfectly natrual to feel nervous when meeting anyones parents for the first time just try to relax and be yourself and everything should be fine, try to a... (read in full...)

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